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Most people have never had the opportunity to experience a close cousin to canine therapy: wolf therapy. At first, wolves may seem like an unusual choice of therapy animal, but history suggests otherwise
Struggling to regain the emotional function they have dulled by years of substance abuse, recovering addicts are turning to an unlikely ally to relearn empathy, self-esteem and impulse control. The Big Bad Wolf. Or, more accurately, the Big Misunderstood Wolf. “What’s so incredible about these animals is how they can completely change your world in seconds and make a difference that lasts a lifetime,” says Renee Dutcher, a volunteer at Wolf Connection, a wolf and “wolfdog” rescue and youth empowerment program outside of Los Angeles. The wolves, and wolf mixes known as “wolfdogs,” serve a therapeutic purpose for children, teens and young adults struggling with a wide range of physical and mental health challenges, including addiction. “They are so powerful and so gentle and caring,” Dutcher said. “When they work with teens and young adults who feel lost, unloved or like they aren’t worth anything, these animals will go right up to them and let them know they’re just as important as anyone else.” It is not the role in which wolves are typically cast. From an early age, starting with Little Red Riding Hood and the Three Little Pigs, we’re taught that wolves are to be feared. They are depicted as ferocious, blood-thirsty creatures that hunt humans and kill for sport. In reality, wolves by nature are shy, intelligent, sensitive and fearful of humans. There are virtually no reports on record that suggest wolves have ever been a threat to people. Misconceptions about wolves led to their near extinction throughout most of the United States in the 1920s. As European settlers depleted wolves’ natural food supply – elk, deer, moose and bison – and wolves began feeding on livestock, the campaign to eradicate them began. It wasn’t until the late 1960s when scientists began to understand the broad implications of decimating a top predator that wolves gained any form of federal protection and were gradually reintroduced into the wild. In all of its complexity, nature is perfectly balanced – and, as we continue to learn, wolves and other top predators play an important role in maintaining that balance. Without wolves, elk, coyote and other prey populations have exploded (each causing its own set of problems). In areas where wolves have been exterminated and later reintroduced, such as Yellowstone National Park, unexpected benefits have ensued. Native vegetation has returned, supplying food to other animals such as beavers, who in turn build dams that provide homes for other creatures and keep the rivers clean. The effects trickle down not only to every area of the immediate ecosystem, but also to the climate and other forces that create the platform for human life. A Love-Hate Relationship Decades later it seems we still haven’t learned our lesson. Mixing fear and fascination, some people have sought out wolves as pets. Too wild for modern living, people bred “wolfdogs,” a mixture of wolves and domesticated dogs, most commonly Siberian huskies, Alaskan malamutes or German shepherds. Some wolfdogs are “high content,” meaning they have a lot of wolf in their genes, whereas others are “low content,” meaning they have a small amount of wolf. Even when bred with a dog, these animals retain much of their wildness. Wolfdogs have special needs, including complex diets, large outdoor pens, and a high degree of socialization and stimulation. When stressed or bored, wolfdogs can become destructive. Expecting a dog but getting a wolf, some wolfdog owners end up tying the animal to a tree with no socialization or training, or dumping it on the side of the road. As a result, about 80 percent of wolfdogs are euthanized or end up in rescue centers. Rescued Wolfdogs Help Addicts Recover The lucky ones end up at Wolf Connection, where the staff spends months working with the animals, gaining their trust and training them to be around other wolfdogs and people. They eat specially tailored diets, exercise regularly and become members of a wolfdog pack. Wolves were man’s earliest teacher, and there is a great deal recovering addicts can learn from wolves today. Their interactions help repair many of the deficits caused by addiction. As strong communicators with a language of their own, wolves can teach humans about respect, forgiveness, and setting and respecting boundaries. By assisting with their care, recovering addicts experience the rewards of giving back – an integral part of lifelong recovery. The wolfdogs are particularly skilled at breaking down defenses and opening people up to their own healing process. “Researchers suggest that after so many generations of co-evolution, our connection with wolves is at the DNA level, meaning that when you see one of these animals, you have a natural instinct to connect and to nurture and to bond,” said Teo Alfero, founder of Wolf Connection. “This takes all of the clients we’ve worked with immediately to a primal level beneath all of the abuse, neglect or negative learned behavior. At this primal level, there’s a natural openness to connect with these animals and to consider a new way of being.” Without uttering a word, there is a common understanding between wolfdogs and recovering addicts. Drawn to one another by a bond thousands of years in the making, these rescued wolfdogs are paying it forward and helping recovering addicts recognize that they, too, have been given a second chance. Excerpts reposted with permission To read the full article published on April 23, 2013 in Where Science Meets the Steps by Dr. David Sack, M.D. (a board certified addiction psychiatrist who oversees addiction treatment programs in Malibu and West Los Angeles, where wolf therapy is offered as part of the young adult rehab program) click on: http://www.bellacounselling.com/1/post/2014/03/animalassisted-therapy-is-a-highly-impactful.html How Therapy Dogs Came to Exist
Interesting information about our four-footed counselors and the usefulness of using dogs to relieve stress or to assist in therapeutic interventions, and how this practice has come to be accepted by mainstream psychological, educational and medical practitioners. "It was quite early in my career, in the 1960’s, and I was attending the American Psychological Association meetings in New York. Because of my interest in dogs and their relationship to humans, I was caught by the title of a talk to be given by a child psychologist, Boris Levinson, who was at Yeshiva University. This would turn out to be the first formal presentation of animal assisted therapy given before a national audience in North America. Levinson was working with a very disturbed child and found, by chance, that when he had his dog Jingles with him the therapy sessions were much more productive. Furthermore, other children who had difficulty communicating seemed more at ease and actually made real attempts at conversation when the dog was present. Levinson gathered data from several such cases and this formed the basis of the paper that he presented at this APA meeting. …the presence of the dog seemed to help patients during their therapy sessions as well. This difference was most marked when Freud was dealing with children or adolescents. It seemed to him that the patients seemed more willing to talk openly when the dog was in the room. They were also more willing to talk about painful issues. The positive results were not limited only to children, but also were seen in adults… The ultimate validation of animal assisted therapy would come from psychologist Alan Beck and psychiatrist Aaron Katcher. They used direct physiological measures to show that when a person interacted with, or even was simply in the presence of, a friendly dog, there were immediate changes in their physiological responses. Breathing became more regular, heart beat slowed, muscles relaxed and there were other physiological changes suggesting a lowering of sympathetic nervous system activity. Since it is the sympathetic nervous system which responds to stress, this indicated that the dog was clearly reducing the stress levels of the people in its presence. There is a bias among psychological researchers, in that they tend to use physiological measures as if they are the “gold standard” for the validity of a concept. Since they could now see the direct effects that pets were having on the physiological indexes of stress, the notions associated with animal assisted therapy became much more acceptable." Excerpts reposted with permission To read the full article published on February 11, 2013 by Stanley Coren, Ph.D. (a Psychology Professor at the University of British Columbia) in Canine Corner click on: psychologytoday.com/blog/canine-corner/201302/how-therapy-dogs-almost-never-came-exist On Wednesday, March 9 6:30-10pm Radha will be hosting a vegan bake sale fundraiser for the SPCA!
Various vegan bakers throughout Vancouver are generously donating their scrumptious goodies to raise funds for our furry friends in need. All baked goods will be sold by donation. Please remember to bring your own containers and bags if you can! Recently I heard a child ask “why are dogs lives so short?” (on average 12-13 years). The response that was given was impeccable. The man stated that “people are born so that they can learn how to live a Good Life ~ like Loving Everybody all the time and being nice, right? Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long.”
This inspired me to bring forth a very tough topic ~ When do we know it is the right time to euthanize our pet and let them go… peacefully? Nothing can make this decision an easy or painless one, but it is truly the final unselfish act of love that we can make for our pet. An important first step is to evaluate our pet's health honestly and unselfishly with our veterinarian. A client recently shared with me that when their family dog refused to eat their food and drink any water and was having difficulty standing up and became uninterested in life - All the signs became clear to her and she knew it was time. When pre-grieving begins, some people can experience shock, anger, anxiety, denial and depression. When a pet becomes sick, lost or dies human family members may experience hurt, anger, pain, depression, devastation, despair, guilt and grief. Of course these are only a few of the emotions a person can feel when confronted with the loss of their pet. Anger may be directed at the illness that killed their pet, the driver of the BMW driving way too fast, the veterinarian who "failed" to save its life, or even at god. Sometimes it is justified, but when anger is carried to extremes, it can distract us from the important task of resolving our grief. Depression is a natural consequence of grief, but can leave us powerless and paralyzed to cope with our feelings. Extreme depression can rob us of motivation and energy, causing us to dwell upon our sorrow and loss. Guilt can occur if someone feels they are responsible for their pet's death or because they took for granted the short time they had with their pet. Perhaps they feel that they did not give their pet enough attention or treats, leading to the "if only I had done more" syndrome. It is pointless and often erroneous to burden ourselves with guilt for the accident or illness that claimed our pet's life since it only makes it more difficult to navigate through our grief. Denial can occur when it is difficult to accept that our pet is really gone. It is hard to imagine that our pet won't greet us when we come home, or go for that evening stroll or cuddle up with us at night. When someone’s pet goes missing, fear that their pet is still alive and suffering somewhere can become part of their reality. I have also heard of some pet owners finding it very difficult to get a new pet for fear of being "disloyal" to their previous pet. Another possibility is the quick acquisition of a new pet to replace the one that passed in order to avoid feeling the loss. Ones own mortality can come into question when confronted with the existential realization that life does not go on forever. This being said, it is important to take a moment and mention that everyone grieves at different rates and in different ways and this depends upon each individuals circumstance. From a holistic perspective if we do not deal with our feelings and emotions of grief, the body and brain frequently takes over and will do it for us by manufacturing an illness or phantom pain. Grief needs to be vented not discounted! Pets can play such an incredibly special role in our lives and sometimes their deaths can be more painful than those of our human family members. Often the emotions that we experience towards our children or siblings are similar emotions we experience towards our pets. Pets can play such a crucial part in our emotional, physical, and social well-being.
We humans love our pets. Sometimes we express affection to our pets more often than we do with our own human family members. I recently heard from a client that their newly adopted family dog allowed an otherwise unaffectionate family to display physical affection for the first time and served as a way to connect all the family members. Nowadays pets are so much more than just pets. They have become true family members and crucial companions. Research demonstrates that children with emotional traumas and learning difficulties are able to make better progress when animals are part of their treatment. Animals can also trigger fond memories and allow humans to connect with nature in the most sterile environments. I have seen first hand how touching Kaya’s furry little body has temporarily relieved a persons pain. We rely on our pets. We panic when we cannot find them. Sometimes we can get mad or frustrated with them but we also become sad and concerned when they are ill. The feelings of loss and grief over a pet can be extremely intense for the survivors since our pets provide us with a unique relationship of fun, joy, uninterrupted listening, comfort, companionship, unconditional love and acceptance! A pet’s death can hit us so hard since most humans engage in conditional love, where there are often strings attached unlike with our pets. |
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